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In this world, anyone is capable of being rich. Many millionaires have a believe that building wealth and becoming rich is about your mentality about money. To them, it's not about why you can't be rich, but about the reasons why you're not rich already. Here are some of the reasons the rich say you're not among them. 1. You think being rich is a privilege reserved for others and not you. We live in a capitalist society, which means you have just as much of a chance to earn wealth as anyone else—as long as you are willing to put in the effort to create value for others. 2. You don't think you're smart enough. A lack of a formal education has rarely ever held back successful people. The founders of Microsoft, Facebook, IKEA, ALDI, Luxottica, and Dell Computers were all either college dropouts or never even attended college. 3. You don't think you're capable of being rich because you're not ambitious. Rich people aren't any more ...

Stumbled on this piece about what a guy wrote, advising guys on the choice of a lady for marriage; especially in the recent economic situation of Nigeria. Read what he wrote: In this new world of rising dollars, it is only normal to take certain austerity measures in areas of our lives; marriage is one of those areas. No one will subsidize a wedding for you, so you need to start acting smart in your choice of a partner. As a fall out of our crashing currency, the economy needs to be expanded, and we are now been encouraged to buy local products in order to grow the Naira. Getting involved with a city girl is pretty expensive, the only way to go local is to pick from any of the good village girls. The cost of maintenance is small compared to a city girl. The average village girl does not know how to club, she won't even ask you about it. She doesn't eat chocolates and Sharwarma. She's never heard of Sushi and never been to Shoprite. Her hairdo is never beyond N200 b...

You know there are times when men can be completely clueless about women. I just don't mean in the romantic department either, but just women in general; our bodies, our wants, or our needs. Even your husband who thinks he knows you better than any other man, has some questions about your body that he is too afraid, or too embarrassed, to ask. Here are some things that your husband may be too afraid to ask you about, but maybe you should share with him to alleviate some of those fears and the awkwardness that surrounds them in general: 1. Your period This can encompass so many things that your husband has questions about, but we will just stick to the menstrual cycle in general. If you need to pull out charts and pictures of female anatomy, go ahead; but I found that a general description of what happens during that week is sufficient enough, and in the end becomes very helpful when you're riding the crimson wave. 2. Cramps I had to make this it's o...

There's obviously a connection and close relationship between a mother and her daughter. Although some ladies prefer not having a close relationship with their mother with reasons best known to them. Here are 11 reasons guys should consider dating a lady who's close to her mum. 1. She knows all of her mom's delicious recipes. She might not have perfected the art of cooking just yet, but she has her mother's secret ingredients and recipes to do so. You'll never go hungry with a girl who's close to her mom. 2. She receives advice from someone who is wise beyond her years. Most girls go to their 20 (or 30) something girlfriends for advice on all aspects of life, but when this girl's life is less than mediocre, the first person she goes to is her mom. Her mother has infinite more wisdom beyond the average millennial, so you can trust she's well-advised. When you two are in a fight, her girlfriend Sally says, "SCREW HIM! You can do so much bette...

Fashion has indeed gone crazy these days especially with ladies. A lady that will one day become a mother dress like this in public, what a shame. Reports has it that those present at the carnival including men and women were also against the indecent dressing. ‎

1. You learn the value of independence. You don't need a man to save you or anyone to take care of you, you learn by example that you are capable of living a full and happy life without having to share it with someone else. You learn that you can build a home, raise kids, cook, and do the dishes all while having a thriving career. You pretty much learn how to be super woman. 2. You learn the meaning of unconditional love. You saw your mom sacrifice her time, health and youth for you and your siblings, yet she never complained or gloated about how much she is suffering or how much she is doing. She always had a smile on her face and was happily giving more and more of herself. She taught you what selfless and unconditional love looks like, and you know you won't be able to find that love anywhere else. 3. You learn how to love yourself. You learn how to walk away from the things that are not meant for you, you learn how to keep going even when the whole world is against ...

This article focuses on why you should marry a lady who is working. It doesn't mean I am against dating a lady still studying in school, but am against dating a lady that still thinks as she is in school. The climax of this article is that dating a working class lady has much more advantage than dating an undergrad. Why? Below are my reasons: 1. Better At Managing Money  Dating a working class lady is so good because she knows and feels the condition of the economy. When she spends, she does it with sense and not like ladies who don't know that making cash is hard and spends anyhow. With this kind of lady, you don't need to worry about the way your finance is being spent. 2. Maturity  Going through work stress builds up maturity in her. Even though girls have a general nature; there is still a difference you will see between a working lady and an undergrad. Matured ladies are mostly needed for dating and not just ladies that begs for recharge cards all the ti...

As I near the end of my 30s, I've been doing a lot of thinking about my  relationship mistakes , especially as I finalize my divorce. Mistakes are meant to happen but if you don't learn from them, you'll never grow or get what you're looking for.‎ For me, I benefit the most when I share the life lessons I learned the hard way with the hopes that someone can steal a gem from the mistakes I made and choose a better path. In the two years since I've been separated from my former husband, I've also promised myself that I will never go through a divorce again, nor will I commit to the wrong person again. These are some of the relationship mistakes I made in my 20s that set the bar too low for me. And I will NEVER repeat them again. 1. I ignored the nice guys. Women ignore the nice guys when they feel bad about themselves. When you feel bad about yourself, you pick people who continue to validate those bad feelings about yourself. I'm not sa...

1. To stop him from getting complacent Sometimes, men can be difficult. Actually, allow me to rephrase: Usually, men are difficult. And we're especially tough to deal with after the courting phase is over. When we were still trying to sleep with you for the first time, we would never leave the toilet seat down, or make up excuses to justify a crazy night out with the boys, or claim that we're too busy to check in. Challenge your boyfriend to remind him that you're worth ongoing effort and that he can never   get complacent in the relationship if he wants to be with you. 2. To have great make-up sex. After a heated argument, he inches a little closer to put his arm around you. He says, "I'm sorry." You might still hate him, but it doesn't matter. You're well positioned for great makeup sex. Once you both realize just how primed things are for a passionate romp between the sheets, you strip each other's clothes off immediately. Your orgasm...

Not every guy's a member of the lucky sperm club. But just because your boyfriend isn't a scion of a wealthy family doesn't mean you're never going to marry a rich man. Don't be discouraged if the guy you are currently dating is nothing more than a penny stock. The market bears no memories. He might very well be poor only for now. Then again, how can you tell? Of course not every penny stock is worth investing in. Some are simply hopeless and will never hit it big. Some are purely millionaires in the making. To spare you from waking up one morning realizing you've invested your time, effort and youth for nothing, here's the rule of thumb I've used to sift out good penny stocks. 1. He knows he is good at something. 
Knowing his worth is usually the first step towards wealth creation. Baby-sitting, baking, gardening or whatever so long as he recognizes that the skills he honed are exchangeable for money. 2. He is self-disciplined. 
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When it comes to admitting love, avoiding your feelings is easier than ever making a move. This can cause you to lose out on one of the  best o pportunities of your life: having an amazing relationship. Years from now, if you never asked her to be your girlfriend, you will still be thinking about what would have happened. It's easy to overlook someone when she's right next to you, but once you lose her, you'll understand just how strong your feelings were. If you're thinking of whether she might be the one to make your girlfriend, here are the signs to help make your decision easier: 1. She pushes you to be successful She wants to see you happy, so she reminds you of your obligations and your ability to overcome obstacles. When you fail or fall short of expectations, she continues to motivate you. 2. Her dad likes you Her dad thinks you are going somewhere in your life, and you two enjoy watching football together. Most of all, he doesn't see you ...

You know when a guy either just isn't that into you, doesn't want anything serious, or can't get his life together enough to man up and make you a priority? But he's a good guy! You should stick around and give it a chance! Nope. Here are 15 signs you need to get up on out of that relationship, because, and you've heard it before, it's better to be single than in something that's going N O W H E R E. 1. He says, "I'm not ready for a relationship," but you hear, "I'm not ready for a relationship right now, but if you keep trying I might be soon."  Chances are he's not going to be ready anytime soon, if ever, and you might just be wasting your precious time aka 20s (or 30s). 2. He's leading you on.  The cycle goes a little something like this: He says sweet things that keep you hopeful, but then when you need him the most or ask him to go home for the holidays with you, he's MIA or declines the invite. If this h...

‎ According to this list put together Psychologist Joro Olumofin, these are the 21 lies Nigerian ladies and guys tell. above is the lies ladies tell...see the one men tell after the cut and tell us what you think

1. Someone Who Gets Us In The Weird Ways Not on like a deep, sappy emotional level. That too I guess, but really just someone who understands that we hate it when people have to mention the fact that they liked the book better than the movie, or that we don't like it when people stand up on airplanes the  second  the plane lands. It's the acknowledgement of those little things that makes it not so much as relationship as it does a really fun time with someone who's fun to hang out with. Speaking of… 2. Someone That's Ridiculously Fun To Hang Out With I would say this is  by far  the most important thing. Great looks are nice and physical attraction obviously helps, but looks alone are exactly like having a tricked out car that breaks down after a few weeks — good for a few rides, then a total nightmare to keep up with. I think the modern dude is increasingly defining a girlfriend as "an awesome person who you get to have sex with." At the end of...

Just like in other developing countries, it takes special intervention for a lot of Nigerians to meet up with things that should be done in the early stages of their lives. Most of the youths in their 30s still depend on people for financial assistance, advice on minor issues, and even coaching in different areas of their lives. They are yet to embrace adulthood without realizing that there is only little time left to achieve so much. The time between your 20s and 30s is probably the most adventurous potential and should be put to maximum use. Once you turn 30, the tendency to feel old begins to creep in slowly and then you only give attention to the most important things in your life. However, in the midst of all the hustle and bustle of trying to put your life in order, there are several goals you should set and things you should accomplish before 30 comes knocking on your age. Daily Gister brings you some of them here. 1. Get a Degree With the ...